30天敏捷结果（20）：好的问题能够得到好的结果

 

“There are no right answers to wrong questions.”–Ursula K. Le Guin

 错误的问题是得不到正确的结果的

 

你的结果: 学会如何问关键的问题来帮助你当即改善你的结果

 

　　在30天敏捷结果：开篇中说到接下来咱们将进行敏捷结果练习，前一篇学习了19：你在为谁作事？，今天咱们要进行Getting Result练习的第20天：好的问题能够得到好的结果（Day 20 — Ask Better Questions, Get Better Results）

 

　　问问题是一个须要本身不断发生的事情，你问的越好对你来讲能够得到更多。经过改善你问本身的问题，你能够改善你生活中不一样热点区域的生活质量。

为何要问问题

问对问题能够帮助咱们平衡、聚焦，作出更好的决策，更有效地进行优先级排定：

• 问对问题=好的回答
  无论这个问题是你进行自我对话仍是会议讨论，问对问题都是很是重要的。若是把问问题和回答问题做为一个流程来看，那么你想得到好的回答则必定须要提出好的问题。就像咱们常常逛技术论坛同样，你发帖求助的回答率与你提出的问题以及提问方式有关。
• 问题=关注点
  经过改变你的问题能够改变咱们的关注点，这可让咱们快速的切换视角。例如，加入你要作一个项目，你可能会问“我有什么资源来作这个项目”，若是你感受资源不够时你就会消极；可是若是你换一种问题“若是没有资源、时间限制我会如何作这个项目？”那么你会想办法去解决资源问题。
• 问题=心里交流
  经过问题进行自我沟通，可让本身得到心里的更多力量。例如，咱们在作一件事情以前，问问本身“为何”要作，找出激励本身的情感式动力，这会让本身实现结果更有效，这也是“为何”三个字带来的力量。
• 问题=机会
  咱们在作产品架构时会有一个市场需求文档模板，这里首先就是列出市场问题，后面就会跟着市场机会，经过问题提出解决方案可能就会创造出不少机会。

关于问题的谚语

1. “A child can ask questions that a wise man cannot answer.”—Unknown
2. “A prudent question is one-half of wisdom.” – Francis Bacon
3. “An answer is always a form of death.”—John Fowles
4. “It is not every question that deserves an answer.” — Publilius Syrus
5. “No question is so difficult to answer as that to which the answer is obvious.” — Karl Otto von Schonhausen Bismarck
6. “Quality questions create a quality life. Successful people ask better questions, and as a result, they get better answers.” — Anthony Robbins
7. “Questions are never indiscreet. Answers sometimes are.” – Publilius Syrus
8. “The man who questions opinion is wise; the man who quarrels with fact is a fool.”–Frank A Garbutt
9. “The only questions that really matter are the ones you ask yourself.” –Ursula K. LeGuin
10. “The uncreative mind can spot wrong answers, but it takes a very creative mind to spot wrong questions.” —Antony Jay
11. “We learn more by looking for the answer to a question and not finding it than we do from learning the answer itself.”—Lloyd Alexander
12. “When we have arrived at the question, the answer is already near.”–Ralph Waldo Emerson
13. “You can tell whether a man is clever by his answers. You can tell whether a man is wise by his questions”.—Naguib Mahfouz

改善结果的一些问题

　　我曾经也说过，一我的自我成长最简单的就是问本身一些问题，在我的管理：从昨天的一个设计评审来谈如何与人交流你的设计思路、我的管理：写书以前应该回答的几个问题、30天敏捷结果（19）：你在为谁作事？、30天敏捷生活（6）： 你的生活目标是什么？中都提出了不少问题。下面罗列一些问题的分类和示例，我相信对你应该会有所帮助：

分类	问题
通用问题	是正确的人在作正确的是吗？ 应该作什么正确的事情? 这个场景下最好作什么？ 你的组织限制或者支持你了吗？
行动	一步我最好作什么? 下一步? 有什么行动？ 你如今能作的最简单事情是什么?
效率和效能	最有效的是什么? 这是否是高效的? 你进展快速，而且方向正确吗？
目的和目标	你想实现什么？ 你用什么来检验你是否成功了？ 这些是你真正想要的目标仍是其余人的目标呢？
学习	你的榜样是谁？ 你想学习别人哪三个方面? 哪三件事情你进展得很好? 哪三件事情须要改善?
激励	你想要作吗? 你喜欢作吗？? 你享受这个过程吗？ 什么东西激励了你? 你能够更好一种更好的激励吗? 用三个故事驱动你的一周就是须要你使用自我激励的方式生成故事
时间管理	你花了多少时间在这上面? 你应该花多长时间在这上面? 如今是最好的时刻吗？ 如今最好作什么？ 你在20%的问题上花了80%的时间吗？ 你如何进行精力管理来更有效地使用你的时间?
价值	这件事重要吗? 这件事意义不一样吗? 谁以为它有价值？你仍是其余人？ 若是其余人以为有价值，它是否与你的价值有冲突，或者是否一致？

　　用上面的表格做为找出好问题的开始，可是找出好问题的要点是这些问题必须对你起做用，你须要持续的给你的问题库中补充对你有用的问题（若是你不知道对生活的问题，能够参考本篇后面附上的生活自问列表）。你会发现，有些简单的问题可让你远离沮丧去找出方案，具备创造力，而且可以找出下一步要作的事情。

本次练习要作的

1. 找出一个能够帮助你得到更好结果的一个自问的问题
2. 找出一个对你不起做用的问题，换一个更有效的问题来改善本身的结果

最后我附上一个101 Important Questions To Ask Yourself in Life

1. Who are you?
2. What are you passionate about?
3. What are the achievements you are most proud of?
4. What are you most grateful for in life?
5. What are the most important things to you in life?
6. How would you describe yourself?
7. What are your values? What do you represent? What do you want to embody?

   
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8. Do you love yourself?
9. Why? Why not?
10. How can you love yourself more today?
11. What is your ideal self? What does it mean to be the best you?
12. Look at your life now. Are you living the life of your dreams?
13. If you have one year left to live, what would you do?
14. If you have one month left to live, what would you do?
15. If you have one week left to live, what would you do?
16. If you have one day left to live, what would you do?
17. If you have an hour left to live, what would you do?
18. If you have one minute left to live, what would you do?

19. What would you do today if there is no more tomorrow?
20. What are the biggest things you’ve learned in life to date?
21. What advice would you give to yourself 3 years ago?

22. If you are yourself 1 year from the future, how would you advise the you now?
23. Is there something you’re still holding on to? Is it time to let it go?
24. What are you busy with today? Will this matter 1 year from now? 3 years? 5 years?
25. What are your Quadrant 2 tasks?
26. What opportunities am I looking for?
27. How can I create these opportunities?
28. What are your biggest goals and dreams?
29. If you are to do something for free for the rest of your life, what would you want to do?
30. What would you do if you cannot fail; if there are no limitations in money, resources, time or networks?

31. What do you want to achieve in 1 year from now? 3 years? 5 years? 10 years?
32. How important are these goals to you?
33. What if these goals are doubled? Tripled? Magnified by 10? How would you feel? Would you prefer to achieve these or your previous goals?
34. Who are the people who have achieved similar goals? What can you learn from them?
35. Are you putting any parts of your life on hold? Why?
36. What’s the top priority in your life right now?
37. What are you doing about it?
38. If you were to die tomorrow, what would be your biggest regret?
39. For each experience you are in: What are the biggest things you have learned?
40. How can you do this better the next time?
41. If you have 1 million dollars, what would you do with it?

42. Do you love your job?
43. What is your ideal career?
44. How can you start creating your ideal career starting today?
45. What is your ideal home like?
46. What is your ideal physical look?
47. What is your ideal life?
48. What do you fear most in life?
49. Is there anything you are running away from?
50. Are you settling for less than you are worth? Why?
51. What is your inner dialogue like?
52. What limiting beliefs are you holding on to?
53. Are they helping you achieve your goals?
54. If not, is it time to let them go?
55. What empowering beliefs can you take on to help you achieve your goals?
56. What bad habits do you want to break?
57. What good habits do you want to cultivate?
58. What’s the biggest step you can take now that will create the biggest result?
59. What would you want to say to yourself 1 year in the future? 3 years? 5 years? 10 years?

60. Where are you living right now – the past, future or present?
61. Are you living your life to the fullest right now?
62. What is the meaning of life?
63. What is your purpose in life? Why do you exist? What is your mission?

64. What drives you?
65. What are the times you are most inspired, most motivated, most charged up?
66. What were you doing at the times?
67. How can you do more of that starting today?
68. How can you change someone’s life for the better today?
69. Who are the 5 people you spend the most time with?
70. Are these people enabling you or holding you back?

    
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71. What qualities do you want to embody?
72. Where can you meet people who embody these qualities?
73. Who inspire you the most?
74. How can you be like them?
75. What is your ideal life partner? How is he/she like?
76. Where can you find him/her?
77. How can you get to know him/her?
78. Are you afraid of letting others get close to you? Why?

    
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79. Who are the most important people in the world to you?
80. Are you giving them the attention you want to give?
81. How can you spend more time with them starting today?
82. What kind of person do you enjoy spending time around?
83. How can you be this person to others?
84. Who do you want to be like in 1 year? 3 years? 5 years? 10 years?
85. Who are your mentors in life? (formal or informal)
86. What is one thing you’re going to do differently after reading this article?

 

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本篇由金博士翻译 

 

0：开篇

1：整体认识Getting Result敏捷方法

2：用三个故事驱动你的一周

3：用三个故事驱动你的一天

4：放弃一些事情

5：使用热图标识出重要事情

6：周五回顾，找到三件作的好以及三件须要改善的事情

7：设定边界值和缓冲

8：清空大脑，释放压力

9：使用必须、应该、能够来肯定天天事情的优先级

10：发挥你的优点

11：高效能、慢生活

12：效率角色－你是启动者仍是完成者？

13：如何对事情付诸行动

14：要事第一

15：让本身处于宁静状态

16：使用隐喻来激励本身

17：找出高效时间，并利用它来处理重要事情

18：给每周增长创造性时间

19：你在为谁作事？

 

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